
Kia ora, Talofa and Malo e lelei. Welcome!
This topic is about the cultural values you grew up with, and how to apply them at work.
It takes about 20 to 30 minutes. You can stop whenever you like and come back later. The app remembers where you got to.
If you would rather listen than read, tap Listen at the top of each part.

By the end of this module you will be able to:
Understand the importance of bringing your cultural values to work.
Identify 3 personal values that are important to you, and explain how to apply them at work.

You walk into a workplace and start wondering if you need to change who you are to fit in. Maybe it is your accent, your last name, or the way your culture does things. It can feel like none of it belongs in a meeting room or in a workplace.
You are not the only one who has felt that way. What you were raised with is worth something at work. The respect you show your elders is the respect you show others. The way you look after your family is the way you can look after a team. Listening before you speak is a leadership skill in any room.
Here is the balance though.
Every workplace has its own rules. At home, big decisions might be made together, while your manager wants you to make a decision on your own. Neither one is wrong. They are just different contexts, and we have to respect that the same way we want our rules and values respected.
So being yourself is not forcing your views on everyone else, and it is not expecting work to run like home. It is knowing who you are, being proud of it, and reading the room well enough to know when and how to apply your cultural values.
Two questions on what you have just read.
2 questions to answer
You spend the day managing how you come across instead of getting on with the work. What does that cost you?
Plenty of people live like this. That does not make it free.
It is rarely that dramatic. It is quieter than that, and it costs you anyway.
It might, but the thing you lose first is the energy.
It is the difference between finishing the week tired from the work and tired from the pretending. Same tiredness, nothing to show for it.
Your workplace does something one way and you were raised to do it another way. What does the module say that difference is worth?
Fitting in is not the same as having nothing to add.
It is not a problem. It is the part of you the team cannot get anywhere else.
What you were raised with does not stop at the door. It shows up in how you work.
A room where everybody thinks the same way misses the same things. Reading a room, including people, handling an obligation with grace. Those solve problems the team would otherwise walk into.
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Three questions on what you just watched. You can go back and watch it again at any time.
3 questions to answer
What does the video say being yourself at work actually means?
The video says being yourself does not mean forcing your views onto everyone else.
That is leaving it at the door, which is the thing the video says you do not have to do.
Every workplace has its own rules. Being yourself does not mean expecting it to run like home.
You stay proud of who you are, and you read the room to work out how and when to bring it forward.
At home, big decisions are made together as a family. Your manager wants you to decide on the spot. What does the video say about that?
Treating your way as the only right one is what the video asks you not to do.
You do not have to decide your own way is wrong either.
A difference in how decisions get made is not a sign you do not belong there.
Two different rooms with two different rules. Respecting theirs is how you earn respect for yours.
A workmate asks why you take time off for a family or church commitment. What does the video suggest?
Most people are not being disrespectful, they simply do not know. Frustration answers a question nobody asked.
Saying nothing leaves them guessing, and the guess is usually worse than the truth.
That turns a simple question into a problem. It rarely needs to go that far.
Most of the time it is not disrespect, it is not knowing. Curiosity first, defence later.
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The value never changes. What changes is how and when you bring it into the room.
Three questions on the three steps.
3 questions to answer
What is the Know it step asking you to do?
That is reading the room, and it comes second. Know it is about you, not them.
Your values are not up for a popularity vote. Know it is about what you actually stand for.
Knowing a value is not the same as hiding it. This step is about being clear, not quiet.
Know it comes first because a value you have never put into words is the one you drop under pressure. It is about knowing who you are, what you believe and what you stand for.
Reading the room tells you this is not the moment. What does the module say that means?
Reading the room is not giving in. The value stays, the moment moves.
Sometimes, but not because one meeting was the wrong moment.
Forcing it is the thing the module warns about. Same value, better moment.
The value never changes. What changes is how and when you bring it into the room. Reading it is about timing, place and people, not about ignoring what you stand for.
The module says Bring it is about sharing your values, not forcing them. What is the point of sharing them?
That is half of it. The module says it is also about what the people around you get from it.
The point is not to shut questions down. It is to offer something the room can use.
That is forcing it. Bring it is an offer, not an argument.
Feeling comfortable is part of it, but not all of it. Sharing your values is also how the team gets something it could not get anywhere else.
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Your values are the beliefs that guide how you make decisions and how you treat people.
Choose the three that stand out to you, or add your own. Turn a card over to see what it means. If the value you want is not here, use Add your own value and write it in your own words, or your own language.
You can swap a pick any time. Nothing is locked in.
Nothing chosen yet.
Your choices save on this device. There is no right answer.
These are the three you chose. For each one, write how you could use it at work. A sentence or two is plenty.
Go back a step and choose your three values first.
Value 1 at work
Value 2 at work
Value 3 at work
Your answers save on this device, so you can come back to them and nobody else can read them.
Out of the three values you chose, pick one and set a goal.
Which one?
Go back to Choose your values and pick your three first.
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Two things to complete before your next session.
Once you know what you want to bring forward, this is how you say it.
CommunicationBeliefs That Hold You BackFor the voice telling you that you have to shrink to belong here.
LeadershipCourage Is Moving AnywayBringing yourself into a room you are unsure of takes some of this.